{"id":5889,"date":"2023-09-21T13:31:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-21T19:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wonderink.org\/?p=4364"},"modified":"2023-10-16T14:39:05","modified_gmt":"2023-10-16T20:39:05","slug":"partnering-with-parents-everyday-faith-formation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wonderink.org\/partnering-with-parents-everyday-faith-formation\/","title":{"rendered":"Partnering with Parents in Everyday Faith Formation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Today when I was running errands with my kids, I realized I had a captive audience strapped in booster seats in the van. So, I took the opportunity to ask them what they learned at Sunday School this week. Everyone had learned a New Testament lesson about Peter\u2014my younger one about how God miraculously released him from prison (Acts 12), and my older boys learned about the amazing vision God had given Peter, which led him to Cornelius\u2019 house (Acts 10).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I asked a couple of questions about what the lessons meant to them and what they had learned about God. It was a quick conversation and then we were on to the next thing, but I was glad for the opportunity to reinforce what they had learned in God\u2019s Big Story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a mom and a spiritual formation pastor, I know that so much of what helps us grow in our faith and as disciples of Jesus has to do with both day-to-day walking with Jesus and exciting, once-in-a-lifetime faith milestones that we remember forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a church context, we know that we are only with kids for an hour or two each week (if we\u2019re lucky!). Kids\u2019 main spiritual formation moments come at home with families. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So it\u2019s worth it to think through how you can <a href=\"https:\/\/wonderink.org\/equipping-parents-to-lead-their-kids-spiritually\/\">partner with families<\/a> through resources and ideas that will help them as they raise their kids to know and love Jesus as they realize that He knows and loves them!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img data-opt-id=1866801464  data-opt-src=\"https:\/\/mlzai04amy7e.i.optimole.com\/w:auto\/h:auto\/q:80\/f:best\/https:\/\/wonderink.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/GettyImages-1312197449.jpg\"   decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20viewBox%3D%220%200%20100%%20100%%22%20width%3D%22100%%22%20height%3D%22100%%22%20xmlns%3D%22http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%22%3E%3Crect%20width%3D%22100%%22%20height%3D%22100%%22%20fill%3D%22transparent%22%2F%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" alt=\"Father and daughter having fun in backyard at home\" class=\"wp-image-3045\" style=\"width:754px;height:502px\" width=\"754\" height=\"502\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: Getty Images\/DigitalVision\/The Good Brigade<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Partnering with Parents: <strong>Helping Families with Daily Formation<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The bulk of our Christian journey is probably not all that exciting or eventful. Discipleship is mostly just a daily walk with Jesus\u2014small choices that form us into His likeness. Theologian Eugene Peterson called it a, \u201clong obedience in the same direction.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Providing resources for families to make it easier for them to incorporate wonder of God into their everyday will make a big difference in children\u2019s formation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>Discipleship is mostly just a daily walk with Jesus\u2014small choices that form us into His likeness. <\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Bible is Key<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Help families incorporate the <strong>Bible <\/strong>into their daily lives. Recommend children\u2019s Bibles to parents with young children, and provide Bible reading plans for families with older kids. Families can slowly begin to work their way through reading all of God\u2019s story together!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Partnering with Parents in Prayer<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Also help families learn how to <strong>pray <\/strong>together. Have you taught kids the Lord\u2019s Prayer at your church? If not, consider saying it with the kids each week. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can then send home a resource to help families know how to pray through the Lord\u2019s prayer together in practical ways. <a href=\"https:\/\/wonderink.org\/developing-family-faith\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/wonderink.org\/developing-family-faith\/\">How can they make God\u2019s name holy in their home<\/a>? Where do they need to see His kingdom come? Where can they ask for forgiveness together? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At my home, every night when we put our kids to bed we each share something we were thankful for in the day. It\u2019s a simple practice, but it helps us notice God\u2019s work in our lives, and then we pray and thank God together. Encourage families with simple, easy-to-do activities that will make a big difference for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Music is Powerful<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>We have all been blessed by hearing the praises of kids as they worship together. <strong>Music<\/strong> is a powerful tool for faith formation. As we sing words that tell us truths about God, those lyrics sink into our hearts and often come to mind when we need them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Make playlists available for your families with the worship <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@ShoutPraisesKids\">songs from <em>Wonder Ink<\/em> by Shout Praises Kids<\/a> and other Scripture-based songs that families can listen to at home. 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Children discover they are Known by God, Loved by Jesus, and Led by the Holy Spirit.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img data-opt-id=1585722656  data-opt-src=\"https:\/\/mlzai04amy7e.i.optimole.com\/w:auto\/h:auto\/q:80\/f:best\/https:\/\/wonderink.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/GettyImages-1305294531.jpg\"  decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20viewBox%3D%220%200%20100%%20100%%22%20width%3D%22100%%22%20height%3D%22100%%22%20xmlns%3D%22http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%22%3E%3Crect%20width%3D%22100%%22%20height%3D%22100%%22%20fill%3D%22transparent%22%2F%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" alt=\"teenage son sitting at table with dad\" class=\"wp-image-3894\" style=\"width:770px;height:513px\" width=\"770\" height=\"513\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credity:Getty Images\/Digital Vision\/Maskot<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Partnering with Parents: <strong>Big Event Formation Moments<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In our journey with Jesus, we also need times to stop and celebrate! These moments\u2014things like baptism or holidays are so significant in our faith lives. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the ways you can help families with their spiritual formation is by providing special events for them in your church context. These types of events aren\u2019t just about fun or entertainment\u2014the goal here is intentional gatherings to help families go deeper in their faith together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At my church this past spring, we had a lot of formation events during Holy Week\u2014the week right before Easter Sunday. Our children\u2019s pastor provided something for families every single day of the week! (It was a lot. We\u2019ll see if we do it again next year. Ha!)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We did a churchwide God\u2019s story worship event that families were invited to attend. We had a family movie night (<em>Prince of Egypt<\/em>). We also did a family-friendly Passover meal. This event was amazing! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Together we learned about how God rescued His people from slavery and saw how He repeated it in a bigger way through Jesus\u2019 death on the cross. We encouraged families to come to our Good Friday service, then on Saturday our children\u2019s pastor put together a walk through the garden event that culminated in an invitation to celebrate with us on Easter Sunday!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These kinds of events require planning and preparation, but they can be so worth it! Kids will remember these big events and the things that they learned about who God is and what He is like, which is the ultimate goal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Ultimately, we want to help kids grow in their faith so that as they become independent, their love of the Lord will not be abandoned. 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